What did you write or reflect on related to the connections among strangers or on working in groups?
What did you write or reflect on related to the connections among strangers or on working in groups?
Connections among strangers
5 responses to “Connections among strangers”
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My response to our group activity was very rooted in what I discovered about myself in the leadership and listening activities the week before. I noticed I was actively trying to listen to my teammates and not take over the activity, especially since I knew our actions were being watched. I think this all helped in the overall success of my team in the challenge, but I am interested to know how I would have acted without this context.
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“I Invite My Parents to a Dinner Party” reminded me of when I was younger and invited friends from school to my house. It was then that I was always most critical of my home. Their presence made me feel almost self-conscious as I imagined them judging the furniture or yard or cleanliness. There were never any comments, so it’s fair to assume that it was all in my head, but I vividly remember it as a child. I’m, of course, not proud of it, but as a kid I worried a lot more about the opinion of others and often imagined my life through their eyes. I now know that this worry was more of a reflection of me and my insecurity rather than on them being judgmental.
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“I Invite My Parents to a Dinner Party” made me think about the effort minorities/queer people put in to be accepted, and how that effort is often not reflected back. I appreciated the narrator’s personal story about his boyfriend Paul and the ways that Paul’s “conversations” with the narrator’s parents (a conversation about physics and a waltz) were well-met and understood better than anything he could have done to make himself/the situation more palatable.
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A space is now a place
I walk
with the uneven sidewalk
grey and sometimes slate
slanted at 45 degrees
A street in which I know well
when the sweet smell of jasmine will waft into my nose
and the pitch of the songs that seem to be coming from
the heavens
But please forgive sometimes I often mistake the treetops and bushes and skies for the heavens
Always contemplative
wondering if this space, might someday transform into a place
Yes, maybe I don’t have children
And I still don’t know if I plan to
And yes
Sometimes I dance until
The lights are minutes aways from flickering awake
in my neighbor’s homes
But as I walked
My familiar walk down my street towards
what could take me elsewhere, the elsewhere that I imagine or long for
or towards the familiar embrace of arms and conversations
or could have me seated
sipping on a warm beverage intended to awaken me from my dreaming
the brass handle, cold, but inviting
the pungent smell of ground coffee, mixed with the thick, sweet smell of batter
Moving through a line
My lips curling at the edges towards those that I often
pass
Sharp to my ears I hear a voice
I see you around a lot she says.
My name is Emily
Care to tell me yours?
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